I was told on sat that I am a person that ppl find it hard to approach.
Woh... ....
Ok, I have been suspecting it for a long time now. And on hindsight, the signs were rather clear.
But what was even more scary was after a short discussion w her, realised a few things:
1) I am hard to approach cos I'm not myself most of the time when I'm w ppl
2) I am not myself cos maybe I dun really like myself.
Woh... ...
This is not a whingeing post!! Its almost more like a discovery post! I mean, I am really curious to know the characteristics and behaviours I display to push ppl away, behaviours that make me seem cold and aloof.
It wld be soooooo helpful!
Joa
P.S. Be honest, i really dun mind! :)
1 comment:
I had someone say that to me too! about me being hard to approach.. which boggled me cuz I've always thought I was very approachable and friendly..
guess we really do need people close to us to be our mirrors..
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