Return of the Joa-di

Ahhh...

So nice to be writing again. Its been a while since I've written, there are probably nobody reading this blog anymore. Its nice to have people reading my blog, makes me feel important...Hee..

But I think its about time for me to write stuff again as there seem to be too many thoughts crashing around in my head, feels like a fully stuff gut up there in my cranium. I've found myself thinking so many times the last few months "Damn, I so need to write this down in my blog- BUT I"M SO LAZY!!"

Since my last post, I've gotten married, had a child (Little J!) and started a new job (SAF). My circumstances are profoundly different than they were same time just last year. Its a big change and there are many emotions and thougths that come with these changes.

Marriage is not the big deal that I've always thought it was; now, I'm not referring to the relationship between Syl and myself. I'm referring to the act of getting married- the preparation and the organizing. Any boutique you hire (tons along tanjon pagar and in marine parade) will take care of most things for you, what's left are the venue and invitations. Of course, the more personalised you want the wedding to be, the more complex is planning. But a standard wedding, with all the trimmings is acutually ' plan-nable' in about two months.

Also, not much has changed in my life cept for living arrangements. Its not as if marriage will radically change a person's mindset and personality. You are the same before your wedding day and after, but if you are smart, you'll learn to understand the concept of responsibility in more depth. This single thing I believe will significantly keep relationships in marriage alive and healthy.

That's a nice start, yes I think I'm gonna enjoy posting thoughts again and unload all the nonsense in my mind.